Anonymous Intern Blogs
True stories from college students about anxiety, loneliness, therapy, drugs, and friendship, written so the next student feels less alone.
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Expectations vs. Reality: The Side of College I Didn’t Know About
When I was accepted into Brown University, I thought all of my problems would be solved. But as I stood on the campus of my dream school shortly...
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Fentanyl and Toxic Friendships in College
One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned is that not everyone is meant to have a place in your life. Looking back, I’ve realized that protecting my peace...
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Seeing a Therapist Changed My Life
While this doesn’t negate his behaviors, I recognize that his childhood could not have been easy and trauma had surely been passed down from him due to the...
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Loneliness: Let’s Talk About it
Within two weeks of freshman year, I dreaded the dining hall. This social environment was my greatest reminder that I had no friends.
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Road to Recovery
**To respect my friend’s privacy, I will be using “Jane” as a fake name** At 17 years old, I confronted the force of drug addiction, but it...
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I was chased all over New York…. by my own baggage!
My first semester at university was an utter disaster. I experienced mental health struggles and hardships due to bullying and stalking. This caused serious issues with eating, sleeping,...
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Self Confidence - The Choice That Changed My Life
When I look back on the past two years of college, I can proudly say that I’ve never been happier and so thrilled with who I’ve become. Building...
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My Ambivalence with COVID-19
COVID-19 stole many anticipated moments from my youth, including the beginning of my college career. Forced into virtual learning and isolation, I had to adapt, become self-disciplined, and...
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True Friends Accept the True You
Embark on a heartfelt journey through the highs and lows of friendship, self-discovery, and acceptance. From facing exclusion and bullying to finding solace in an unexpected friendship, witness...
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Surviving College by David Bradley is written for teens and college students. School, stress, friendships, and mental health, in the same honest voice as the stories on this page.
Questions about the blog
What is the Anonymous Intern Blog?
It is a collection of true, first person stories written by college students who intern with Big Head Bob. Each writer shares one real experience with mental health, school, family, friendship, or growing up, and stays anonymous so they can tell the whole truth.
Who writes these stories?
College students from universities across the United States and abroad. Writers have come from NYU, UCLA, Berkeley, USC, Brown, Stanford, UVA, the University of Georgia, UNLV, and more. Every post is written by the student who lived it.
Are the stories real?
Yes. Every post is a true account of something that happened to the writer. Names, schools, and details that could identify another person are changed or left out.
Why are the writers anonymous?
Anonymity lets students write honestly about therapy, drugs, family conflict, abortion, and other topics they would never put under their own name while applying for jobs or sitting in class. Without it, the stories would not be this honest.
Are these posts appropriate for my class or my kid?
The blog is written for readers 16 and older. Topics include anxiety, drugs, loneliness, abortion, and trauma. Teachers and parents should read a post all the way through before sharing it with a student or a class.
What if I am struggling right now?
You are not alone, and it is okay to ask for help. In the United States, call or text 988 any time to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. Talking to a counselor, a teacher, or someone you trust is a good next step too.
Take a deep breath
If a story hit close to home, that is a sign to talk to someone. A counselor, a friend, a parent, or 988 any time.