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BIG HEAD BOB ACADEMY · K–3 SEL

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Unit 1: Feelings. Lesson 1 of 2 ·
95 minutes, start to finish.

Two ways to teach Lesson 1 today. Grab the printable plan for your binder, or scroll down and run the whole lesson live, right on this page, with working activities and sheets you can print as you go.

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Lesson at a glanceUnit 1 · Lesson 1 of 2 · 95 min · K–3

OBJECTIVE

Students name what they feel, accept that every feeling is okay, and practice one tool for calming a big feeling.

CASEL

Self-awareness and self-management.

PREP

Print the eight sheets. Clear floor space for a circle. Board and markers, crayons, safety scissors.

ACTIVITIES

Circle Talk 5 min · Naming Feelings 10 min · Drawing 20 min ·
Bob Story 15 min · Box Breathing 20 min · Bookmarks 25 min.

CLOSING

Three review questions, a wall poster, and a take-home Feelings Mission.

LESSON 1 · TEACH IT LIVE

Express your feelings and respect yourself

Open an activity to get the purpose, steps, and a ready-to-print sheet or cutout.Print straight from this page and have fun.

Eight sheets. Print them, or save one PDF.
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1 Circle Talk 5 min +

Purpose. Help students practice saying a feeling out loud in a safe group, and hear that classmates feel things too.

Who shares next?

Spin to pick who shares next. Nobody gets volunteered.

8 in circle

Everyone take a seat number.

STEPS

  1. Seat students in a circle so everyone can see each other.
  2. Going around the circle, each student names their feeling right now in one word.
  3. Invite four or five volunteers to say why they feel that way.

MATERIALS

  • Carpet or open floor space
  • Feeling word cutouts (print below)
Note for teachers

If a student shares something serious, like someone hurting them or not being safe at home, thank them for trusting you, move on gently so they are not on display, and follow up privately after the circle. Follow your school's reporting steps. Never promise to keep it secret.

Printable: “Today I feel…” cutout cards

Name:

Today I feel…

Circle Talk cutouts · cut along the dashed lines ✂
Big Head Bob Academy · Unit 1, Lesson 1

Tap a card to make it pop!

🙂
Happy
😢
Sad
😠
Angry
😮
Surprised
😌
Calm
✏️
My own word
2 Naming Feelings 10 min +

Purpose. Build feelings vocabulary fast, then sort the words into positive and negative together.

STEPS

  1. Split the class into two teams at the board.
  2. Teams race for 2–3 minutes to write as many feeling words as they can. No repeats.
  3. Count words, then sort every word as a class into positive and negative.

MATERIALS

  • Class board and markers
  • Sorting chart (print below)
Note for teachers

There is no answer key. “Excited” can feel good or scary; “surprised” can be either. When students disagree, let both answers stand and ask what makes the difference. That is the real lesson.

Printable: positive / negative sorting chart

Name:

Our Feeling Words

Naming Feelings chart
Big Head Bob Academy · Unit 1, Lesson 1

Click a line and type the words your class calls out.

Positive feelings 🙂
Negative feelings 😕

Sort the Feelings

Tap a word, then tap a column. Tap a placed word to send it back. There are no wrong answers.

Positive feelings 🙂

Negative feelings 😕

3 Drawing 20 min +

Purpose. Help students notice how their body and their actions change in a good mood versus a bad mood.

STEPS

  1. Hand out the drawing worksheet, one per student.
  2. Students draw themselves in a good mood and in a bad mood.
  3. They write what they do in each mood and what causes it.
  4. Hang the finished pictures up and share a few as a class.

MATERIALS

  • Drawing worksheet (print below)
  • Crayons, markers, or pencils
Note for teachers

Watch for students who draw the bad mood first and stay there. Prompt them back to the good-mood box before sharing time, so nobody hangs their hardest day on the wall alone.

Share timer

Three minutes each. Add or take away 30 or 60 seconds. When it hits zero, switch partners.

3:00
Printable: good mood / bad mood drawing sheet

Name:

Me in a Good Mood & a Bad Mood

Drawing worksheet
Big Head Bob Academy · Unit 1, Lesson 1

In a GOOD mood 🙂
In a BAD mood 😕
4 Big Head Bob Story 15 min +

Purpose. Watch how Big Head Bob accepts failure and turns a weakness into a strength, then connect it to students' own lives.

STEPS

  1. Read the book, or play the video read-aloud below.
  2. Ask how Bob reacts when things go wrong for him.
  3. Each student names one weakness they could turn into a strength.

MATERIALS

  • The book, or the video read-aloud
  • Discussion cards (print below)
Printable: Discussion cards

Name:

Talk About It With Bob

Story discussion cards
Big Head Bob Academy · Unit 1, Lesson 1

Slide through the cards → read one out loud → tap to type our answer.

1

What went wrong for Bob in the story?

✏️ Type our answer
2

How did Bob feel? How could you tell?

✏️ Type our answer
3

What did Bob do instead of giving up?

✏️ Type our answer
4

Name one thing that is hard for you. How could practice make it a strength?

✏️ Type our answer
5 Box Breathing 20 min +

Purpose. Give students one simple, repeatable tool they can use for life when a feeling gets too big.

STEPS

  1. Play the Box Breathing video below to introduce the four-count method.
  2. Trace the square in the air together as you count.
  3. Run several slow cycles with the widget below.
  4. Agree on when to use it: before a test, after an argument, at bedtime.

MATERIALS

  • A quiet space to sit
  • Wall poster (print below)
Or try it below:

Box Breathing

Project this and follow the dot together. In for four, hold, out for four, hold.

Press start Breathe in Hold Breathe out Hold
Cycles completed: 0
Printable: Box Breathing wall poster

Name:

Box Breathing

Trace the square with your finger. Count to four on every side.

HOLD · 4
BREATHE IN · 4
Big Head Bob
BREATHE OUT · 4
HOLD · 4
6 Bookmarks 25 min +

Purpose. Make a keepsake full of cheer-up phrases students can reach for on a hard day.

STEPS

  1. Print and cut the bookmark templates.
  2. Students decorate them however they like.
  3. Each student writes their own cheer-up phrase on the back.
  4. Keep the bookmark in a reading book for hard days.

MATERIALS

  • Bookmark templates (print below)
  • Crayons and safety scissors
Note for teachers

Ask students to write a phrase they would actually say to themselves, not the prettiest one. A bookmark in their own words gets used; a copied one does not.

Printable: 4 bookmark templates · 2 per page

Name:

Cheer-Up Bookmarks

2.7" × 7" · cut along the dashed edges · decorate · write your own phrase on the back

Make your own bookmark

Type a phrase in your own words, draw on it, add stickers, then print your bookmark on its own page.

Big Head Bob
Add a sticker, then drag it anywhere

Need words? “This feeling will pass.” · “I can try again.” · “I am enough.”

Big Head Bob

This feeling will pass.

Big Head Bob

Breathe.
In 4. Out 4.

Big Head Bob

I am still learning.
That's okay.

Big Head Bob

Be kind.
Be calm.

CLOSE THE LESSON · 5 MIN

What we learned today

Ask the class first. Then tap to see what Bob says.

What do we do when a feeling gets big?
Name it out loud, then breathe. In four, hold four, out four, hold four.
Is it okay to feel angry or sad?
Every feeling is okay. What we do next is the part we choose.
How can you tell what you are feeling?
Check your body and your face, then find the word for it.
Printable: classroom takeaway poster
Printable: take-home Feelings Mission

In Our Class

Classroom poster · hang it where everyone can see it

Big Head Bob
Every feeling is okay.
We name it out loud.
We breathe. In 4. Out 4.
This feeling will pass.
We listen to each other.

Name:

My Feelings Mission

Three things I will try this week · take this home

Type the class's ideas here, then print one for everyone.

Tick a box every time you do one. Bring it back at the end of the week.

BONUS · CALM ANY TIME

Bob's Calm Corner

Put it up when a big feeling shows up, to start the day, or for a peaceful end. Free, no prep, no printing.

Big Head Bob

LESSON 2 · PREVIEW

Recognize and respect others' feelings

✨ In the full unit
Activity 1 Circle Talk: guess
a friend’s feeling
Activity 2 Respecting Others’ Feelings
(Bob & Lisa)
Activity 3 Role Playing: seeing
another point of view
Activity 4 Showing Appreciation:
thank you notes
Activity 5 Compliment Cards
Activity 6 Act of Kindness
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